I'm not talking about solely about sex. In fact it's not even the main subject, but more of just a strong physical relationship. Teens have many contributing factors to being pushed into physical activity with their partner. First is Peer ressure. The most dangerous. People want to be just as good or better as their friends and also try to get their friends to "one up" them so they can do better than that. It's a cycle. One person will say they have a girlfriend and then everyone will get one. One will kiss their girlfriend and all the others will kiss their girlfriends. It goes aon and pushes people into things they reall may not wnat to do.
Then there's the media and television which constantly bombard us with sex and sexual inuendo. This also pushes people into the mind set that they have to do this kind of thing.
Now I want to be straight on my opinion so everyone knows it.
1. I do believe in waiting until marriage to become heavily sexually active.
2. I will never ever force my partner (Rae-chan at the moment ^_^ yay Rae) to do something they wouldn't want to
3. Physical attraction should not lead immediately to sex.
4. I hope I'm not misunderstood x_x
Well I just added more o_o This subject really got my mind swirling today and made me think about a lot of stuff. 533 y4
WOAH! TIME TO BLOG!
Been awake since 1:12:16 PM
God dammit, y'know after that last Blog I wrote up another HUGE one and the comp messed up just as I clicked "podt and publish" x_x no damn fair at all
Well again I've been absent for a hell of a long time. Sorry about that ^_^;;; Anyway I guess I should fill y'all in on my life... hmm...
oooooh I love my Rae-chan ^_^ We have been together for a month now and it's all good. We never really didn't get to celebrate properly because of Jack though... ¬¬ (evil penetrating icy cold glare of doom)
Only a select few people know that I have a "special person" ( ^_^ ) in my life and they keep asking how far we've gone in our relationship and have we gone "all the way" ^_^;;; it's odd for them to ask things like that y'know? I mean you tell them the answer and then you start to think about it yourself. It puts you in a whole new mindset about your relationship. Is it love or lust? Obviously with Rae-chan and I it has always been love but the people who lust are often the ones who are getting the 'ahem' "action". So it also makes you think that maybe you're getting the better deal having loving someone and not getting into a short physical relationship while also giving you a different longing.
Wow, it's so difficult for me to even wright this down but hopefully It'll sort things out in my head. Everyone feels those things about their partner, no matter how long they've really been together. I would never force my Rae-chan into anything and at the same time I think that we would'nt be ready at such a young age and un-married. I also even wonder if I should be thinking this way after only being together for a month. *sighs* Life's wierd y'know? Full of things like this but you just have to take it in stride I suppose. These things are what make life.
Boy I hope Amber, Am-chan and Rae don't kill me for this blog thinking I'm some kind of pervert x___x;;;;;
Everyone should read "The Belgariad" by David Eddings. It should be enforce by the government I say. And then we should model countries after the ones in "The Belgariad"... yeah... I wanna live in Riva or Cherek o_o All the people I hate can move to Rok Gaska ^_^
My friend at school continues to flirt with me x_x Some people don't bloody well get it when you say no. "I had a dream where we made out, and..." Stop right there! I have someone thank you very much. Geez... x_x
My school's producton of "Joseph and the amazing technicolor dreamcoat" kicked ass oo I'm jealous that I didn't audition and get to be in it x_x
Hmm... well at the moment that's all I have to say. I'll let everyone know just how messed up Rae-chan and Amber think I am tomorrow x_x;;; while I don't know if I'll even see Am-chan until tomorrow since I'm going to my mom's. *sighs* Boy I hope I don't regret this blog. Peace out yo'
Been awake since 11:00:21 AM